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Awareness day 11: saturday
Today me and mom were in the car to feed the cats living at my mom's sister. In the car we were talking and it came to a point that where I share that we (people) are not what we say we are, but what we show, physically act out. Because for instance, you can say " I am a nice sweet person", but act totally different. And then the conversation went to love. Mom said: yes, like you can say you love someone but you have to show it. I said to her that that depends, because people define love very fucked up often. I gave the example of appearance, because mom often judges herself on the way she looks and wants me to join in when she asks me how she looks or something. I always tell her she looks perfect just the way she does. So I always say that, and she knows that lol . So she said that she would like to take her sister to the mall because she can ask her whats beautyfull and whats not.
I told her, that real love is that you dont allow a person to be less then who she really is. That love is to not go along with system talks and/or supporting her to look a certain way based on what others find beautyfull on her or about her. To show that she is beautyfull just the way she is , as we all are, no matter what we are or what we look like.
It then came to the point about where mom was tring to deny it lol and said;: yeah yeah but its true that I dont feel good when i dont look so good.
But a cool common sense point came in that moment and I said: wow what would happen if all mirrors would be gone! you wouldnt feel bad anymore then about the way you look because you dont see yourself. Now we live as pictures, in a picture world.
And because it was logicaly common sense she saw this herself to. So that was cool. She was like: yeah! thats a good point.
And now I have to go to the toilet urgent :p lol
I told her, that real love is that you dont allow a person to be less then who she really is. That love is to not go along with system talks and/or supporting her to look a certain way based on what others find beautyfull on her or about her. To show that she is beautyfull just the way she is , as we all are, no matter what we are or what we look like.
It then came to the point about where mom was tring to deny it lol and said;: yeah yeah but its true that I dont feel good when i dont look so good.
But a cool common sense point came in that moment and I said: wow what would happen if all mirrors would be gone! you wouldnt feel bad anymore then about the way you look because you dont see yourself. Now we live as pictures, in a picture world.
And because it was logicaly common sense she saw this herself to. So that was cool. She was like: yeah! thats a good point.
And now I have to go to the toilet urgent :p lol
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